Personal Development Category



Attitude and Motivation

Attitude and Motivation go hand in hand together. The better your attitude toward life the more motivated you will be to succeed at anything you do. So you might ask how does having the right attitude motivate me to do anything? Keep reading and I will explain how having a great attitude will benefit you and I will also give you some ideas to help you develop a great attitude. So what is an attitude exactly? Well an attitude is a judgement toward a particular person, place, thing, object, etc. It is generally how you feel toward  that item usually… Read more »

How to Be Organized

How to be organized and start making life easier for yourself. Being organized is one of those things that comes naturally for some people and others struggle everyday just to scratch the surface of organization. There are several tricks to getting different parts of your life organized and truthfully if you can master one aspect of organization  then they others will follow behind with much less effect. There are several types of organization that you experience in your life such as time management, reducing clutter, putting things in their proper place, etc. For most people who want to get their… Read more »

My Special Gift

My Special Gift will tell you why everyone has a special gift and why that includes even you.   Every person on this planet has a special gift. The gifts may not all be identical but they are all special. What is your gift? It may be singing, acting, drawing, writing, or craftsmanship. Or you may have an eye for detail, allowing you to turn an ordinary space into a wonderful refuge, where people would want to spend their time. It’s never too late to make a change and find a path that will allow you to be true to… Read more »

Success and Self Improvement

Is your success for self improvement obtainable or sustainable? The desire to improve your life is one of your most fundamental needs. That feeling that comes from knowing that everyday you are becoming more and developing is part of your nature. Knowing that you are affecting and improving your environment through your own influence is immensely satisfying and enjoyable. It is a key ingredient in living a happy and fulfilled lifestyle. At some level we are all pursuing success of some sort. We are constantly looking for ways to have more, to be more and to gain more, thinking that… Read more »

Success The Price You Pay

Standing in the hurricane winds, the kid was looking sick. We could all see the storm was growing more and more intense. The rain had already plastered the boys hair to his forehead and his new black suit was starting to cling to him in ways Mr. Armani never intended. A typhoon was coming — the seventh this summer to hit Japan — and the kid’s job, as newest employee, was to stand in front of a TV camera while the weather buffeted him about for the nation to watch. Sort of a talking weather vane. I take my exercise… Read more »

Learn To Love Growth And Change And You Will Be A Success.

Do you want to be even more successful?  Learn to love learning and growth. The more effort you put into improving your skills, the bigger the payoff you will get.  Realize that things will be hard at first, but the rewards will be worth it. Many of us have to be reminded that almost everything worthwhile in our lives is hard at first.  Learning to walk was hard at first, but gradually we learned and now it is effortless.  The same holds true for our more advanced skills such as, sports, music, art, etc. We forget these past struggles to… Read more »

There is no place like now.

Most people in our culture today are so busy running around trying to arrange their lives to be somewhere else. We all want to be somewhere else geographically or financially or in our relationships. We want to be anywhere but here as we’ve been led to believe that if only we can be somewhere else then our lives would work. This escapism acts like a drug that only gives temporary relief to a chronic problem. Apart from wanting to be somewhere else, most people today also live by a philosophy of “some day” that allows them to manipulate time. “I… Read more »

The Key To Your Motivation and Success

What sets successful people apart from the pack? Is it luck, money, good lucks, and/or talent? No, it is one small simple fact — motivation. People who are successful all share one trait — they are motivated. Of course, motivation really isn’t simple at all. That is why there is multi-billion industry focused on self-help books, tapes, seminars, camps, and coaches. There is just one problem with using these methods. When it comes to motivation one size does not fit all. One of the elements that makes human beings so endlessly fascinating is that we are all individuals.It is the… Read more »

Little Things Do Make a Difference

Think back over your life. Think about the people that had a positive influence on you. If your past was like mine, many of them didn’t realize the impact they made. The influence was usually due to them caring about you and doing some little thing. What little things have been done for you that changed your life? What little things have you done for someone else that might have changed theirs? I have been influenced by little things done by others. I had a boss that asked whether I had the guts to take a job he felt I… Read more »

Rags To Riches – Not Just An American Dream

When someone becomes immensely successful and wealthy, others have choices in how they respond. The common choices are: 1. An outpouring of jealousy, dismissing the successful person as lucky, dishonest, manipulative, evil or with some other derogatory term. 2. Admiration and acceptance; a “that’s life” attitude: “Good for him”. 3. Wow! How did he do that? I want to learn from that guy and do the same. It is sad that such a high percentage of people seem to fall into category 1, although I would guess the majority fall into category 2. Where life can get very interesting is… Read more »

Enjoy Life While Staying Out of Debt

If you want to enjoy your life out of spending, enjoy if you have you have your own resources and money. But don’t enjoy your life by becoming a debtor to somebody. Of course in the modern world, there are many ways and means, which force you to become a debtor. Attractive advertisements in the satellite TV force you to become a debtor. It tempts you to buy the modern amenities at any cost. Even though if you don’t have any money or resources it show you many resources for obtaining credit to buy that product. But you must think… Read more »

Stop Scoring Own Goals

Own goals are actions, things we do, that stop us from reaching where we want to go or what we want to obtain. When we are out of focus, when we are out of tune with what’s going on, when we do something which takes us in the opposite direction of where we were going or should be going, we have scored an own goal. Sometimes they happen accidentally, sometimes on purpose and sometimes simply because we try too hard.   First Own Goal   To stop scoring the first own goal, answer the following questions:   What is my… Read more »

What Do You WANT? What Do You DESERVE?

  FOR EVERYBODY?   You may or may not be suprised to hear that not everyone in this world is always aware of how they fit into their community or what they want to do with themselves. There are many people who have such amazing minds and can accomplish so many things yet they are never sure of what direction in life they would like to take.   From our studies of excellence and successful people we can see that each person who considers themselves to be successful and peaceful within themselves all have this outcome for who they want… Read more »

Eight Steps to Taking Control of Every Situation in Your Life

Like it or not, we are all gladiators. We go to sleep and wake up in a social arena from which there is no escape. Challenge upon challenge confronts us, walls restrain us, and a mob of spectators mocks, sneers, or cheers us. Each and every day brings new battles whether we want them or not and whether we’re up to them or not. Life forces us to face one skirmish after another – no choice in the matter.   What we can choose, though, is which kind of gladiator to be, victor or victim.   Being a victim in… Read more »

5 Simple Ways to Kick Start Your Goal-Setting

There are five important, yet simple steps to follow, which I believe are necessary for seemingly impossible goals to be achieved. Step Number One Spend some quiet time and write down exactly what the change or changes will be and why you want them, this is the first crucial step towards achieving goals. At this stage, write only what it is you’d like to achieve and why. The ‘how’s’ and ‘when’s’ can come later. Step Number Two This step too is very important, and it has everything to do with you accessing a state of inner peace. The peace I… Read more »

Goal Setting and Success the Missing Link

“Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action.” -Benjamin Disraeli   “There is nothing more frightful than ignorance in action.” -Johann von Goethe   “Remember, people will judge you by your actions, not your intentions. You may have a heart of gold — but so does a hard-boiled egg.” -Anon.   The missing link between inactivity and achievement is initiative. I believe the missing quality in the homogenized society that we live in is initiative. Ask any employer who is building a business and the number one quality they seek in new recruits is initiative…. Read more »

7 Great Success Ideas!

Let history’s greatest minds help you to find true success and happiness today. Plato. Socrates. Aristotle. Confucius. Thomas Aquinas. Hundreds, even thousands of years later, the names of the great philosophers remain legendary, their ideas continuing to captivate minds, stimulate thought, and shape the course of human history. But what are those ideas? Why are they still impacting the way people think, understand, and act? Most importantly, how can they help YOU to live a happier, better, more fulfilling life today? In The Seven Greatest Success Ideas: ‘A-HAs’ That Are Guaranteed to Take Your Life to the Next Level, public… Read more »

The Key To Your Motivation and Success

What sets successful people apart from the pack? Is it luck, money, good lucks, and/or talent? No, it is one small simple fact — motivation. People who are successful all share one trait — they are motivated. Of course, motivation really isn’t simple at all. That is why there is multi-billion industry focused on self-help books, tapes, seminars, camps, and coaches. There is just one problem with using these methods. When it comes to motivation one size does not fit all. One of the elements that makes human beings so endlessly fascinating is that we are all individuals.It is the… Read more »

When You Are Down And Out, How Do You Get Up And Go Forward?

Have you been prospecting for months on end, only to end up with no one? Or have you been trying to sell a product or service that has not been selling? Or you just kind of depressed about your current employment? There are many reasons to get down and start to get depressed about your situation. When you are down, do you know how to get back up and heading in the right direction? When learning some techniques in your personal development growth, I believe there are four good principles that you can use to get you headed back in… Read more »

Are You Programmed For Success…Or Failure?

Have you ever wondered why some people just have it all? They’re well liked by everyone they meet, financially set and attractive…but what stands out most is their beaming sense of self-confidence when they enter a room. It’s almost as if they have a certain “presence” that gives off positive vibes. Not everyone is this fortunate, however. There are people who are faced with low self worth, they struggle to maintain positive relationships and often feel resentful towards people who are better off than they are. So what’s the difference? How can one person be so incredibly successful while another… Read more »

Success Steps For Your Personal Or Business Life

Success isn’t really that difficult. There is a significant portion of the population here in North America, that actually want and need success to be hard! Why? So they then have a built-in excuse when things don’t go their way! Pretty sad situation, to say the least. For those of you who are serious about having more, doing more, giving more and being more, success is achievable with some understanding of what to do, some discipline around planning and execution of those plans and belief that you can achieve your desires. The Truth About Success The first thing to remember… Read more »

The Real Secrets To Success

“It’s what you learn when you think you know everything that counts the most in life.” Basketball Coach John Wooden What’s the “secret” behind successful business owners? It’s simple – they have a coach. We all have blind spots, particularly when it comes to our business. Have you noticed how easy it is to give advice, but when it comes to your life you can’t see the whole picture? Emotions can get in the way of making clear decisions. Who do you turn to when you need answers? Do you operate your business from the highest level of thinking and… Read more »

Optimists Hope for More and Aren’t Thrown by Less

These are changing and challenging times. Life is difficult and setbacks are common in the great game of business and in life. Every person has a choice about the attitude they bring to their day and the actions they make. Those who will prosper must develop flexible optimism, resourcefulness, and persistence in the face of adversity and constant change. Unfortunately, far too many are falling victim to the depression of our age, learned helplessness— “Nothing I can do is going to make any difference in what happens to me, so why try?” By controlling your attitudes and habits you too… Read more »

Why Do Bad Things Happen To Good People?

This is a question that most people grapple with from time to time and it has largely been on my mind this past week. You see one of the best people I know — my Uncle Carl — had a very bad accident this week. While working on the wood lot with his son, his hand got caught in a log splitter. In the end the damage was so severe that his left hand had to be amputated. Although no longer a young man, my uncle is very active and enjoys working with his hands. He is right handed but… Read more »

The Art of Self Improvement

There’s no doubt about it: Self Improvement is big business. No matter where we look we seem to see men attired in business suits and fancy haircuts. Sporting dinky little ear-piece microphones, they speak to us as though we were attending the annual general meeting of their multi-national self-development business which, I suppose, isn’t that far from the truth. They speak to us in sound-bites; “I’m gunna show you how…”, “you just need to follow my plan: no thought required; just follow the plan”. Success and winning, they preach to the audience, are a sure thing. But is self development… Read more »

Conditioning Yourself to Succeed

Sometimes you may encounter situations where you know what you should be doing, but you’re having a tough time getting yourself to do it. Or perhaps you’re able to get started on a task, but you just can’t seem to maintain the momentum to see it through to the end. If such a problem continues for too long, you’re bound to start to seeing a detrimental effect on your overall confidence level. You may begin thinking you have a motivation problem, as if maybe you just don’t want to succeed badly enough. One solution to this problem is conditioning, which… Read more »

3 Positive Steps to discover the purpose of life.

If your life is not as passionate as you would have liked it to be, if you lack the zest and energy for living, it is because of the lack of an underlying principle around which one’s life should be organized. The process of discovering this underlying principle may be the most powerful thing you will ever do yourself, because it will give your life a direction, a purpose. It will provide you with the clarity and focus, that could awaken the unbelievable forces hidden somewhere deep inside you. Keywords: hypnosis, hypnotic, hypnotism, hypnosis techniques, hypnosis training, self-hypnosis, learn hypnosis,… Read more »

Achieving Exponential Success

Exponential success is the mathematical process of multiplying numbers. Remember your math days and the different calculations you used. Remember that 4+4=8 and 4X4 is 16 but 4 to the 4th power is 256. Same numbers still math, same amount of effort of do the math on a calculator but look at the difference in results. This process yields greater numbers than any other mathematical process. Some people are satisfied with minor success throughout their lives, adding to their lives a little at a time. Some people want to multiply the joy they have and the goals they want to… Read more »

7 Ways To Stay Motivated

You know what it’s like. You set yourself a goal, something you want to achieve. You are excited and ready to take on the world, and then a few months later you can’t even be bothered to spend 10 minutes working towards achieving it.  Well welcome to being human! It is so easy to go from excitement to complete apathy but there are things you can do to ensure you stay motivated towards your goal and following are seven great ones!   1. Is Your Reason WHY Large Enough?   When I wanted to lose weight setting a goal to… Read more »

A Passkey To Success

Have you ever known someone who always seemed to get what they wanted? Maybe it was that guy at work who went from visionary cubicle working stiff to powerful corner office head honcho in a short interval of time. Or your faired haired high school classmate with the glimmer in her eye, who made getting straight A’s “and being caption of the women’s soccer team look like a cake walk. Their cups always seem to overflow and others marveled at their accomplishments. Never did we hear them complain or worry (out loud for that matter). They always expected the best… Read more »

6 Dimensions Of Thinking, 1 Steering Wheel For Success

Thought leads to belief, and belief leads to attitudes. Attitudes influence while beliefs inform actions, and ultimately actions become habits which shape character that then forges destiny. This is the growth path that is taken by that powerful entity known as Thought.   But what is a Thought, anyway? Are thoughts things? What constitutes a Thought? What cannot be considered a Thought?   For a thing that occurs about 50,000 times a day in an average person’s brain, I have come to believe that there are actually 6 dimensions of thinking and at least 1 way of steering your thoughts… Read more »

Don’t Let Money Control You Manifest It

Do you ever get the sense, that if you could just make more money, all of your problems would be over? Do you ever feel like money controls you, instead of you controlling your money? Money gives you things, yes, but more importantly it gives you freedom. Freedom to spend, freedom to have, and freedom to just be. You want money so that life can be and feel easier…You want money so you can have the experience freedom.   Isn’t it funny…how we all want to manifest more money in our lives, (and not have to work for it!) -… Read more »

The Prosperity In Forgiveness

All of us, at some point in our lives have felt the desperate inner turmoil and confusion that comes from feeling that we have been “wronged” or betrayed in some way. You fight to understand what is wrong with a person to have done such a thing, or to be such a way. You wonder what may be wrong with you …. Have I deserved such treatment? Am I just completely naïve? I am too trusting. I have loved too deeply, and now I am paying for it. The list of inner chatter goes on and on as we try… Read more »

Time is a Unique Resource

How many times have you thought or said, “Sure, I’d like to (take a course, take a vacation, work on an additional skill or project, etc) but there just isn’t enough time.”  When we say, “There just isn’t enough time,” we’re shirking responsibility. Let’s look at time and I’ll show you what I mean. Time is a unique resource.  It cannot be saved, stopped, or replaced.  It’s interesting, then, that some people seem to “find time” to get things accomplished that others don’t.  Some people seem to be able to “manage time” better than others and are thus able to… Read more »

Solving Time Management Problems

Having a clear, unambiguous understanding of role and responsibilities is one of the foundation stones on which successful managers operate. Without this, the manager cannot be sure what activities to lead on, take part in, praise, reward, discipline, or not be involved in. Managers will inevitably become involved in activities and take responsibility for activities that they should not. Worse, areas of responsibility that are those of the manager will be ignored. Managing personal workload and other individuals and teams effectively is not possible when the role and responsibilities of the manager are uncertain. The solution is to arrange for… Read more »

Happiness: How To Maximise Pleasure And Joy!

You’re a diamond.   I’ve always said that each person was a diamond hidden in the ground. The start of the personal development journey is digging the diamond up, and clearing off the mud, is getting rid of negative emotions, negative self-image, and negative core beliefs. Most previous articles in the emotional mastery section have been clearing off the dirt, now it’s time for something positive.   Find True Pleasure   Happiness. What everyone is striving for. The end goal of everything we do. A new car, a new hot girlfriend, a handsome husband, money, the latest extreme sport, the… Read more »

Mid Life Crisis (MLC) Fact or Fiction? This too will pass…

I turned 40 this year in January and thought not too much about it, however as the year has progressed I’ve felt like a frustrated 13 year old. What used to work for me as far as the opportunities that would fly my way have stopped. What in the hell is going on I asked myself. So as is my nature I did some research and found out I was going through a mid-life-crisis (MLC). The changes that generally a lot of MLC people go through and which are misunderstood, can lead to some big choices that can be mistakes…. Read more »

Give A Smile-Get A Smile

In today’s world of technology we do not have ample opportunity to get personal. Life is fast-paced and everyone seems to be in a rush.  We dial the phone and we talk to machines. We spend long hours on the computer playing games, emailing one another or working with our web pages. Even in the office environment, we email the person in the cubicle 3 feet away instead of walking over to hand them a task list. Don’t get me wrong.  I love technology. I cannot imagine ever being without my computer and am guilty of spending a large part… Read more »

Letting Go Of Perfection

“The power of discovery enables us to achieve excellence without having to be “perfect.’” – Thomas Crum, The Magic of Conflict I arrived at the conference center ready to present my workshop. Almost immediately I noticed the room was too small and it was not set up as requested. There were no flip charts and there were tables, though I had specifically asked for open space. I caught myself and smiled. I drew the word D I S C O V E R Y in large letters on a piece of newsprint and put it at the front of the… Read more »

Where are you heading in Life?

It’s quite amazing how many people go through their lives with very little thought as to where they are heading with it. There is an accepted lifecycle assigned to everyone and most of us seem to just fall into it and ‘live’ it out as if there was no alternative. There are some truly disturbing statistics about people’s lives, most of it relates to their financial status at retirement time but I won’t scare you with that, you can research it by yourself if you have not heard it all before. But what is even more disturbing is the quality… Read more »

THE CONCEPT OF POSITIVE THINKING

THE POWER OF POSITIVE THINKING In todays world, more and more people speak about the power of positive thinking. It is a concept that has a very high view of human nature and ability. Its advocates teach that the human mind has the power to turn wishes into reality through optimism. In other words The Power Of Positive thinking refers to the power of creating thoughts, which create and focus energy into reality. To bring into creation a positive outcome, which you see as a benefit to yourself or others.   Positive thinking is a mental attitude that admits into… Read more »

The Embarrassment of Self Development

For a long time I yearned to improve myself; my true inner self, but something was holding me back. I made a lot of excuses back then; I didn’t have time; I was too tired; I wasn’t sure what direction my search should take. However, the truth was I felt embarrassed about opening myself up, especially to those close to me. All that changed when I went for a stroll along a Danish beach. I went to Denmark for a short camping holiday. I stayed on a small island in the North Sea. It was beautiful, very peaceful; just what… Read more »

You are Magic

“Magic (ma-jic): an extraordinary power or influence seemingly from a supernatural source”. The attempt to define magic is difficult at best. It is used more as a word to define, than one that can be defined. The same can be said for who you are. We attempt to define ourselves, yet no adequate words exist to describe the complexity of who we are. We can describe what we look like, the type of work we do, our ethnic heritage or gender. Yet, that comes nowhere near the truth of what animates your being. You are a mystery. You are magic…. Read more »

Living in the Moment for a More Effective Lifestyle

I spend lots of time working with individuals, corporations and businesses to get them engaged in the present moment. The reasons I think this is important in business as well as personally are drawn upon toward the end of this article. My center here in Bournemouth used to sell a wide range of books and one that I used to stock was a book called “The Power of Now” by a guy called Eckhart Tolle. Lots of people that came to classes, workshops and consultations at the center would often tell me how great it was and give me snippets… Read more »

How to Use Affirmations – The Secret

To affirm means to declare what is already present.  It is the same with creating and using affirmations to attract or to transform the things which we desire.   When you create an affirmation you are declaring to yourself and the universe that the desire is already created.  As you continue to repeat these affirmations you are also holding your thoughts clearing with intense focus on the creation that you have made.   Affirmations serve many purposes when trying to manifest the things you want.  Applying the law of attraction can be hard when you try diligently to maintain positive… Read more »

Manifestation Your Tool For Personal Growth

Manifestation is the results of your thoughts. Sounds simple if you are already a manifestation student but do you really believe it and live by it. What we focus on expands, so what are you manifesting? Why not stop and think about it, what you are manifesting right now. How do you feel about what you are manifesting and do you feel like it is your creation? You may have some doubts about this but you are already an expert at manifesting? Just look at everything around you and all the experiences that you have been having. If we can… Read more »

Law of Attraction – An Ancient Money Getting Secret

There is a secret to getting the law of attraction to move mountains and to create miracles beyond belief. As you may already know applying the law of attraction with success can be a hit of miss for many people. While there are people who claim to have outstanding results there are those who also complain of not getting what they want. That is because not many people really know the full missing part to applying the law of attraction. Let me first tell you how powerful this secret is beyond the law of attraction. Think about how long you… Read more »

Law of Attraction – 3 Proven Ways to Master Your Money

The law of attraction, like all other laws, have guidelines that need to be applied for maximum success. While affirmations work for many things they don’t often work very well for manifesting money and that is because of the deeply entrenched belief that most people have about money. It could take lifetimes for those beliefs to change and while that belief is unchanged the money problems continue. Have you ever noticed that the things you seem to have the most difficulty with are those things which have power over you? Money happens to be one thing in physical realty that… Read more »

Guaranteed Goal Achievement! Easy New Year Reolutions

One of the amazing gifts that we have as people is the desire to have dreams of a better life, and the ability to establish goals to live out those dreams. What is even more amazing is that we have also been given the ability to not only dream but to pursue those dreams and not only to pursue them, but the ability to actually set goals and make plans to achieve those dreams. I did so much of my Christmas shopping this year online. Some may think me lazy, but I love to shop that way. It has dawned… Read more »

Instead Of Waiting, Give It Yourself

If you are like most people, then you too have this strange tendency to wait for others to fill in your needs. This pattern of “waiting for others” is a bad habit, causing a lot of pain and stress in your relationships. It can even be fatal and needlessly ruin a relationship! Reason enough to take a closer look at this habit and learn how to handle it. At the start of a new relationship, you get everything you have been longing for, sometimes since early childhood: love, affection, tenderness, attention, excitement and energy. You think you’ve finally found your… Read more »